if you had had some financial guardrails some moral guardrails some relational guardrails and again maybe even some professional guardrails now the pushback on all of this throughout our series together is that Guard Rails Sydney live in a world that doesn't value this idea we live in a world that essentially resists guardrails that culture doesn't encourage. Guardrails in fact as we've discovered and as you will discover oftentimes people in our culture are critical of us when we establish guardrails because personal guardrails are like personal rules and number one I don't like rules and you don't like rules so Guard Rails Sydney don't like establishing rules for ourselves but oftentimes. When we establish rules for ourselves it's a little bit threatening to the people around us culture doesn't like guardrails culture is content with painted lines just lines on the side of the road but the interesting thing is this and we've all experien